Thursday, October 2, 2014

Friends with Benefits

Friends with Benefits Is everyone hooking up? Having sex with someone is a complicated act and the participates "SHOULD" be fully prepared to handle the consequences. Your life will never be the same if your sexual act results in having a baby. Not only is it younger people that are finding themselves in precarious situations, but there are some older folk that go into these sexual relationships just as ill-prepared, if you will. Undoubtedly, not everyone is responsible and sometimes people engage in activities that soon thereafter they regret even happened. For example, many times friends have a night out on the town drinking and partying , but sometimes they take it a bit to far and find themselves together in bed the next morning. Makes you wonder, why didn't the control-mechanism ever kick in in this instance? Subsequently,the friend relationship is now on some more ish..... Sex can take a relationships to places never imagined and can be either positive or negative. Nonetheless, it is more justifiable in the eyesight of Elohim, if you are a married couple as compared to having sex out of wedlock. Yes, I said "WEDLOCK". Seeing that, so many people are taking part in multiple sexual relationships does not necessarily make it Okay in the eyesight of GOD if you will. Plainly speaking, so many people around the world are commit suicide, but does that make it okay? Of course not, you do not have the right to take your life. Elohim still treasures the idea of family, which consist of a man his wife and his children. It is of no consequence to the King, your individual or personal appreciation of what makes up a family. Fact of the matter is, he established the pattern when he himself took on a bride and we all know her by the name of "EVE". It is comical, that all of sudden in 2014, the world wants to pretend like we were never taught the difference between what is right and wrong. But, nevertheless, that is another days blog. Having sex is more of a spiritual act, although it is physically carried out. During these relations Oxytocin, which is the hormone that is made in the brain, in the hypothalamus, and it is transported to, and secreted by, the pituitary gland, which is located at the base of the brain. Oxytocin, has been called the "Love" hormone and it either causes you to want more from your sexual partner or not. Many people drift and engage in sex with numerous other sexual partners for multiple reasons and can be a harmful lifestyle. Chemically it is known as a nonapeptide (a peptide containing nine amino acids), and biologically, as a neuropeptide. It acts both as a hormone and as a brain neurotransmitter. In the sexual secretions there are hormones that are transferred to your partners, that creates the sexual desires for one another. There are so many sexual risk involved, yet we are still willing to have sex unprotected in some instances. What is that a man or woman can say to another person that would cause him/her put it all on the line? Is it really love? For the most part this is absolutely not just LUST!

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